What Sass Sea?

(pronounced Sassy)

Did you know ALL fairy tales all follow a formula?

It starts with “Once upon a time…” and ends with “Happy Ever After”.

Since the beginning of time, as women our “Happy Ever After” has been tied to marriage & motherhood. Our security and stability have always been tied to making ourselves small, holding back our own power, our personal magic and giving away our freedom (our agency, autonomy, our names, our dreams & our story) in exchange for financial security and shelter.

Marrying “good” has always been the fairytale women have been sold as they pursue security.

We are the first generation of Sass Sea women that do not need a man to cosign our life. We have true freedom with full agency and autonomy. We no longer have to play small and reduce ourselves to have stability, BUT at the same time we are drifting out at sea.

We have guilt for not wanting the scripted fairytale, we are deeply grieving a life that we were told we’d have, systemically conditioned to want (but acknowledge will not be ours), and in the absence of the fairytale script we are simply lost and adrift.

You are single and child-free for a reason (even if you aren’t willing to own the REAL reason you are single & child-free). You’ve torn up the societal fairytale script but your stuck.

You know its time to write your own “Happy Ever After”, but you don’t even know what that looks like because your deep dreams, wants and desires are overshadowed by old scripting. You don’t (yet) know how to rewrite your story, your way, unapologetically and audaciously living your life your way, by your own rules.

Sass Sea is that inner Bad Ass Bitch that just won’t shut up!!!

She that inner voice that keeps compelling you to risk it all to write yourself into your own story, to make the ultimate bet, to try the ultimate social experiment (even if you are the only one in the social experiment).

She’s that deep intuition that knows you are destined for a different script than Marriage & Motherhood. She’s that thing that won’t let you give up on your deepest most sacred hopes, dreams and desires.

Sass Sea is YOU, when you are living the life that you secretly dream of.